Autumn Blues

Positivity

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Jeg kan til tider være et ret trist og alt for filosoferende og følsomt menneske. Men jeg er oftest meget positiv, glad og barnlig. Og jeg er det mere, jo ældre jeg bliver. At være positiv og glad er nemlig meget ofte et valg man selv tager hver evig eneste dag. Jeg prøver ikke at lyde bedrevidende, eller som om jeg har svaret på alt. Det er kun ud fra egne erfaringer. Jeg har nemlig selv på det seneste opdaget, at man helt selv bestemmer hvordan man ønsker ens dag skal være. For nogle uger siden havde jeg en rigtig dårlig dag på mit arbejde. Jeg var halvsløj og derfor træt, ugidelig og i dårligt humør. Jeg mærkede hele dagen, at jeg ikke var nærværende over for børnene, og da jeg kom hjem var jeg stadig i utrolig dårligt humør. Det var en virkelig dårlig dag, og jeg var bare negativ når jeg fortalte min kæreste om den, men da slog det mig, at dét gider jeg ikke. Jeg gider ikke være sådan en person der bare klager og spreder dårlig stemning. For i virkeligheden er jeg jo ret heldig. Vi er ret heldige. Tag over hovedet, mad på bordet, hjælp hvis vi bliver syge. Og jeg kom til at tænke over en ting jeg har hørt folk sige før, og som jeg finder så vigtig og motiverende: Det eneste DU har kontrol over i livet, er din attitude. Det er ikke de ting du skal i gennem der definerer dig, men hvordan du vælger at tackle dem og derved komme i gennem dem. Alle kan have dårlige dage, og det er altså også okay. Jeg kommer også til, at have dårlige dage. Men der kommer til at være færre nu. Jeg vil nemlig hver morgen når jeg vågner, sige til mig selv at jeg i dag vælger at det skal være en god dag. Jeg vælger at jeg i dag vil være glad. Jeg vil have en positiv indstilling til dagen, livet og andre mennesker.  Jeg vil omgive mig selv med positive mennesker, ting der gør mig glad, som for eksempel Disneyfilm og Disney musik. Jeg tror virkelig at mange mennesker, inklusive mig selv da jeg var yngre og havde enormt dårlig selvtillid, bare går og venter på, at deres liv flasker sig og at de bliver glade. Men i realiteten er det kun os som kan gøre os glade. Det er et bevidst valg alle kan tage.

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I can some times be a bit sad and way to deep thinking and sensitive as a human. But I am most often very positive, happy and childish. And I am more positive the older I become. To be positive is a choice you make every day. I am not trying to sound like I think I know better or like I have all the answers. It is only from my own experiences. Because lately I have actually realized that it is totally up to you how you want your day to be. A couple of weeks ago I had a really bad day at my job. I was feeling ill and therefore tired, lazy and in a bad mood. The whole day I felt like I was not all there when the children approached me and when I got home I was still in such a bad mood. It was a really bad day and I was just so negative when I told my boyfriend about it. But then it hit me that that is not the person I want to be. I do not want to be a person that complains and make other people in a bad mood. Because really, I am quite lucky. We are quite lucky. We have a roof over our head, food on the table, help if we get sick. And this got me thinking on something I heard certain people say that I think is so important and motivating: The only thing YOU have control over your life is your attitude. It is not the things you have to go through that defines you, but how you manage to go through them. How you decide to go through them. Everyone can have bad days and that is also okay. I will also have bad days. But not as many as I used to.  Because every morning I am going to wake up and tell myself that today I choose that this is going to be a good day. Today I choose to be happy. I want to have a positive attitude on the day, life and the people. I will surround myself with positive people, things that make me happy, like for example Disney movies and Disney music. I really think that many people, including myself when I was younger and had really bad self confidence, just walk about waiting for their lives to become perfect and that they will end up positive and happy. But in reality it is only you that can make you happy. It is a conscious choice everyone can make.

Skærmbillede 2015-08-19 kl. 23.04.24

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  • Hi lovely,
    Thanks for sharing this! It is so inspiring and that makes me feel much better! I have been so busy from uni and work, meanwhile need to deal with my personal stuffs, everything comes out. I keep telling myself that being positive, but sometimes it doesn’t work lol

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    • Aww, thanks for reading it lovely <3 I know, I sometimes feel like that too. And I actually think it's important to be able to be sad or mad too, I don't think it's healthy to always remain positive if we feel sad or stressed. Most of the time it helps, but sometimes we have to let ourselves feel sad or angry! Do you know what I mean? (:

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